Breast Cancer Awareness Month
Providing Effective Support for Cancer Fighters
When a loved one is diagnosed with cancer, it can be an overwhelming experience, not just for them but also for those around them. Supporting them in this challenging journey requires both sensitivity and practicality. Here are some ways you can make a difference.
Communicate openly and honestly. Although finding the right words can be challenging, your empathetic presence can provide immense comfort. Remember that it's okay not to have all the answers. Sometimes, just listening can be the most supportive action.
Stay connected with your loved ones throughout their journey, even if the conversations seem tough. The American Cancer Society emphasizes the importance of being there for your loved one 1. It's not always about saying the right thing but being there when they need you.
Some individuals may find it difficult to ask for help, so take the initiative. Offer specific ways you could lend a hand during their treatment. This could include running errands, looking after pets, driving them to medical appointments, or picking up their children from school. These small gestures can go a long way in providing meaningful support.
If there are more people willing to help, consider coordinating efforts to ensure your loved one is supported in the best possible way. As Eldridge from Verywell Health 2 suggests, creating a care calendar or using apps designed for caregiver coordination can streamline this process, ensuring tasks are divided equally and efficiently.
Lastly, remember that it's the love, care, and support from those around them that can lighten their burden during this challenging journey. Emotional support is as important as physical assistance 3, so keep reminding your loved one of your unwavering support and love.
Supporting a loved one with cancer involves both emotional and practical support. But above all, it requires patience, understanding, and love.
1. American Cancer Society. (2021). Being a Friend to Someone with Cancer. American Cancer Society, https://www.cancer.org/cancer/caregivers/how-to-be-a-friend-to-someone-with-cancer.html
2. Eldridge. (2022). Supporting a Loved One With Cancer. Verywell Health, https://www.verywellhealth.com/tips-for-supporting-a-loved-one-with-cancer-2248966
3. Adventist Health. (2023). Supporting a Loved One With Cancer. Adventist Health., https://www.adventisthealth.org/blog/2023/august/supporting-a-loved-one-with-cancer/